The Matching Rings Finger: A deeper symbolism
Understanding the symbolism behind the Simple Matching Bracelets is a great way to understand this custom. The circular shape of the ring is the eternal love that never ends. Why the fourth finger and more specifically, the left hand?
According to Dr. Jane R. Lewis an internationally renowned anthropologist "the left hand is usually seen as being second to the right hand in a variety of cultures. It is the hand that is regarded as the 'other. By placing the wedding rings on the left hand, we symbolize that love and commitment are distinct from the common right-handed activities of daily life. It's a tangible reminder of the unique and unique bond of marriage."
As we've discussed the perceived connection with the heart is a powerful symbol. This direct path to the heart indicates that our love and dedication are not just superficial emotions, but deeply rooted in our hearts.
The significance of the wedding ring finger may have personal interpretations too. The journey of the ring from fingers to the fourth finger could be a signifying point for some couples. From the first spark (a touch on the fingers) to the deep connection and commitment (the fourth finger with the heart-connected).
These symbolic interpretations can make the wedding ring more than a place to wear a beautiful piece of jewelry; it's an everyday reminder of commitment, love, and the journey you take with your partner.
Incorporating Traditions: A Modern Take on Wedding Ring Finger
The custom of wearing a wedding ring on one finger has changed over time, as have all other traditions. In today's diverse, modern society, the "rules", around the wedding ring, are less rigid and more reflective of cultural background and personal preference.
In the present it's not uncommon for individuals or couples to decide which finger or hand they want their wedding ring on. The reason for this can be based on cultural tradition, personal comfort, practicality, or even a desire to rethink symbols and traditions in a way that matches their individual relationship and identity.
Therapist for relationships Dr. Sarah R. Young says, "In my clinic, I encourage couples to make deliberate choices regarding wedding traditions including the finger. This could be a conversation between partners to discuss the significance of their relationship and how they wish to signify it. The way symbols are defined can have a significant effect on their meaning.
Modern variations to the wedding ring finger tradition don't take away from its significance but instead create personal layers of meaning. As long as the symbolism is in line with the couple's commitment and understanding, the finger or hand isn't important.